Belongingness is associated with healthy child and adolescent development. Those who are connected perceive themselves as more competent and autonomous and also have high levels of intrinsic motivation (12).
No matter the age, encourage your child to make sure no one feels left out or bullied on Valentine’s Day. Instead of your child focusing on what they may or may not receive, have them take advantage of spreading the holidays’ message of love and inclusion.
I slipped a candy gram to the girl who checked out my package at the front desk, and she was touched that a stranger would take the time to say thank you. In the evening I also handed some out to the dining hall staff, one of which hugged me since she had lost her voice so she couldn’t speak.
At the end of it all, taking the time to pass out the candy grams showed just how much a thought can go a long way. It doesn’t matter if you know the people or not, rather having the courage to talk to new people says another thing. Happy Valentine’s Day, let’s spread the love.
That drive and desire to be included may also help you think more creatively. In 2012, a study,Trusted Source found that social rejection helped people generate more innovative ideas (4).
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Experience of social rejection may indeed stimulate creativity but only for individuals with an independent self-concept. In 3 studies, we show that individuals who hold an independent self-concept performed more creatively after social rejection relative to inclusion. We also show that this boost in creativity is mediated by a differentiated mind-set, or salient feelings of being different from others (10).
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